Creating Comebacks Through Setbacks

By: Paying

One month ago, I wrote a blog post on how excited I was to complete my Career Planning Process. I was excited to use all I have learned in the past four years at my new summer internship that would start in June. Another opportunity I looked forward to was a Publishing Internship Fair that would have multiple employers seeking future interns for their programs which I wanted for the following fall and spring after my summer internship. Once Summer 2021 comes along, my goal was to apply for and get accepted into Penguin Random House’s Editorial Internship Position which would help segway into a career there. This was my plan after graduation in May 2020.

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Two weeks ago, the Publishing Internship Fair was cancelled. I lost the chance to speak with the employers there who were seeking interns. I lost the opportunity to introduce myself and share my interest in their companies and my career goal of becoming an editor.

Three days ago, I received an email from my supervisor at the summer internship, it had been cancelled. Although the reasonings behind it were very understandable, I still felt discouraged and soon began to have doubts about my career plan with so many lost opportunities and chances at gaining experience.

‘What am I supposed to do now?’

‘I shared the news of my acceptance with everyone so how am I going to be able to say I’m no longer going to be an editorial intern?’

‘I don’t want to go back to square one, can I just give up?’

The uncertainty of my future worried me and I couldn’t gather my thoughts well enough to respond to the email I just received. 

‘Should I reply?’

‘What would I say?’

‘What could I say?’

I could still thank them for the opportunity. I could reply in a positive way because it must’ve been a tough decision. I could turn this setback into a comeback.

After a few hours having a meltdown, I came back to my senses and realized all the opportunities I lost were still in reach. I can still email the employers who were listed to attend the fair and ask about open positions/internships. I can still apply to various positions already posted online. I can still keep my connection with my summer internship employer and mention that I am still interested in future opportunities. 

After those realizations, I came to a conclusion that this year of delays could instead be a year of preparation and connecting, which may benefit my future in the long run.

After receiving a reply to my email, I felt like I had started my comeback already. During a tough time in one’s life along with everything going on in the world, it’s important to stick together and try to seek the good things in all the bad. 

When something doesn’t go your way and causes setbacks as well as doubts, it’s up to you to decide how you’re going to use that to create another version of your planned future. Will you let these obstacles affect your motivation and drive negatively or will you use this to move you forward in a new direction to the same goal? 

Robert Cheeke once said, “Sometimes small setbacks are just blessings in disguise. They enhance your determination and whole-hearted dedication to achieving your goals.”

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